How to Select a New York Divorce Lawyer

How to Select a New York Divorce LawyerToday we’re going to discuss how to select a New York divorce lawyer

Even when considering a divorce action, the relationship you have between you and your spouse is personal and private. Divorce does not have to change any of that.

When you choose a divorce lawyer, it is important that he or she is someone that you can trust and feel comfortable with.

Here are some tips to help you find a New York divorce lawyer who can help you with the legal technicalities involved in divorce and at the same time offer you what you need most of all at this crucial point in your life – TRUST.

Listed below are five tips to help you select a New York divorce lawyer you can trust to get you though what can be one of the most stressful periods of your adult life:


How to Select a New York Divorce Lawyer

Get referrals

Get referrals from attorneys, but most especially from people that you know. It could be your friends and family. Be sure to ask a lot of questions, the most important of which is whom they would recommend as a divorce attorney and whom to avoid.

If you have dealt with attorneys before and liked their services, contact them and ask for recommendations, if they do not handle divorce cases themselves.


Check the New York divorce lawyer’s bar status

You can do this by simply placing a call to your county or state bar association. This is a good way for you to find out whether your divorce attorney is really a member of the bar.

On top of that, most state bar associations have their own lawyer referral programs to help you find a lawyer in your area who is experienced in the type of case you are involved in.


Make a list of lawyer qualifications

When looking to contract the services of a professional, the first and most important step is to know what you want and what to expect. It helps if you make a list of all the things that you are looking for in a divorce lawyer.

Do you prefer your lawyer to be a man or woman? Young or old? Someone who will work to settle your case? Or someone who will fight to the end? It is all subjective at this point…

A list will help you sort out the most important qualifications and separate them from the less important ones.


Schedule a consultation

A good way to determine whether you feel comfortable with a lawyer or trust them is to schedule a consultation.

Remember, you are trying to assess this lawyer’s ability to give you what you want in a lawyer-client relationship, not just their skill with argumentation and debate.

Consider the following five (5) questions to ask:

  1. What will the fee be?
  2. Does the lawyer accept installments?
  3. What kind of outcome should you expect?
  4. How often will he or she be in contact?
  5. How quickly are phone calls returned?

Finally, the initial visit with the New York divorce lawyer is an important opportunity for you to make sure that the attorney is the best one for you. Don’t hesitate to ask questions. In fact, the more questions you have, the better.


Divorce Grounds

The divorce grounds in the United States vary from state to state. Click here for a list of grounds including resources to help navigate your divorce actions in New York.


New York state attorney Yolette M. Saintiny personally handles the firm’s family law practice. She specializing in divorce, child custody, support and orders of protection in New York. Call (718) 493-2122 or Send Us an Email to Schedule Consultations.

How to Select a New York Divorce Lawyer References

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Written by Yolette M. Saintiny, Esq.

Immigration, Real Estate & Family Lawyer Yolette M. Saintiny, Esq., is a member in good standing of the New York state bar, second judicial department since 1995.   Yolette, a zealous attorney and serial entrepreneur has cumulative legal experience in both the for-profit and not-for-profit sectors where she has dedicated her legal knowledge to assisting immigrants in receiving Benefits under current immigration laws; along with seeking legal redress for victims of abuse.   For Legal Services Contact attorney Yolette M. Saintiny in Brooklyn & Manhattan at (800) 691-2949; (347) 955-1515 or direct your written inquiries via email.


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